My Gratitude To My Siblings & Families Members

It's really a blessing for me in my life's for having such a wonderful loving, caring siblings and families members. A very big thank you to all of you especially to my three sisters-in-law and five brothers-in-law. 


To my eight siblings, once again a very warm thank you for having all of you as my brothers and sisters. It's really no any amounts of monies can buy. Although we are from a poor family, but the loving, kindness, caring bonding between all of us is really fantastic that no words can ever defines. I will forever cherish it in my life. Please take care of both my sons if I'm no more in this world as we really don't know what is going to happen tomorrow. I still miss our departed ones very much till these days. I'm really very happy today to see both my sons can jingle around all of you very well with a good attitude. 


To my sisters-in-law, once again, my warmest thank you to all you for being able to adapt well into this big family. Putting aside our different religions. Very respectful to the elders, caring and the kindness. Your choice of husband is correct. We are all very faithful husband and i  think all of us are not romantic. We are also very filial sons and husband. Like my third sister always said I'm an almost extinct type of person. Cherish it in your lives. Sister Deborah, although elder brother's had left us, you still take all the trouble to visit all of us when you are back form UAE. You still keep the important of family bonding within yourself. This is the kind of spirits that will keep the root of our families tree together forever. Sis, it's time to retire and enjoy your life. Sister Mag, still remember what I told you when, what's the most important thing in your life's when you are in your twilight years ? Trust my words as I'm very sure about it. It's my blessing to have you as my sister-in-law. Take your mom to stay with you more often as I think my brother's will welcome her with open arms. Being able to care for our parents is our blessing.  


To all my nephews, nieces, grandnephews and grandnieces. This group have too many members as I also don't know some of their names or sometimes confuse with their names. It span five generations and if lucky the sixth generations will be coming soon. Try to keep in touch with all your cousins to preserve this great family tree. Pleased arrange your time and come back for Qingming Festival if all of you are able to make it. It's the most important observance in my life. I never fail to pay homage to our late beloved ancestors since I was in my teens. To me, the objective of this observance is teach us not to forget our roots and at the same time it also act as a gathering to bring all the families closer. It's also to teach us how to be filial, respect the elders and humility. Hey, how about organizing a big gathering this coming CNY with a karaoke session thrown in at our ancestral home ? Its been a very long time we didn't celebrate it with all our families joining together like those good old days. I always insist good cultures that the teach us filial piety, kindness, humility and honesty should be preserved.              

Rise Of The Water Dragon

This Lunar New Year mark the beginning of the Water Dragon's since 1952. The beginning of the new year should give us hope for a better tomorrow. But it seems the premonition global recessions will be inexorable especially with the Euro zones mess and USA will fall into double dips. The lower and middle income groups will definitely felt the contagion effects.The disparity income gaps will be getting wider.

The soaring cost of living is a elementary concern to the majorities. For the past few years, price of vital foods are increasing sharply like there is no tomorrow. Foods that are customary symbolic for the Lunar New Year like pomfret means "abundance", sea cucumber "longevity" and abalone "prosperity" are beyond the means for the ordinary Joe.

Anyway, I hope that my premonition was wrong and everyone can have sanguine to breeze through the stormy weathers.

May the auspicious Dragon bless everyone abundance of good health, longevity, happiness and prosperity.
GONG XI FA CAI.            

Season's Greeting

Another year gone by and a brand new year begins. May the auspicious year of the Rabbit brings you abundance of longevity, togetherness, prosperity and happiness always.


GONG XI FA CAI

恭喜发财 

Season's Greetings

TIS THE TIME FOR GIVING AND FORGIVING

WISH EVERYONE A JOYOUS MERRY X'MAS 

HAPPY NEW YEAR 2011

My Plea And My Pledge

First and foremost, my sincere apology if any reader's felt offended with this article. I don't mind if you want to call me an insane, lunatic, buffoon and whatnot as you wish as I was also known as a loose cannon since my teens. I'm also not the holier-than-thou type. To err is humane. Different strokes for different folks.

Religion is teaching of good values should be the essence. But sadly since time immemorial, it has been greatly abuse by those selfish peoples for personal gains and become one of the most perilous weapon. Because of bigotry in religion, an estimated 20 millions of innocence lives were lost in the Taiping Rebellion (1850-1864), one of the deadliest conflict ever recorded in history.

My Plea,

I'm not against any religion's. I'm against the method use by those who proselytize one's religion by indoctrinating the kids who insolently rebel against their parents just because of religion. Please remember all these kids are still minors by law. Please tell me honestly, what's your feeling if your children whom had been indoctrinated and insolently rebels against you ? Please respect each others religion's in order for us to have a salubrious environment to live in.

My Pledge,

To me, no God is greater than our parents. If anyone still insist to cross the borderline by using the children to proselytize, then I hereby pledge to play along with you in this foolish zero sum game. You may fool some people some of the time but you won't be able to fool all the people all the time.

A woman who open her leg to make a living out of abject poverty has more dignity than those whoring themselves in the name of religion for selfish personal gains

My sincere apology. This quote is not meant to insult the women. 

       

          

Tribute To My Beloved Mom

Toiling the soil with moonlight as pathway guide,
called it a day when darkness wrap up the night,
just for the sake of nine children futurity ray of light,
teaching us humility, what is wrong, what is right.

Mom work is priceless, with long hours and hardly any rest,
struggling to ensure all the children have food on their plate,
plain congee is sufficient for us to call it a wonderful day,
Mom, all your sacrifices that we won't be able to pay.

Mom, we know, it's a very tough row for you to hoe,
Father know best, but Mom knows better,
an ounce of Mom is worth a pound of clergy,
forever a shining virtue in the eyes of your posterity.

Mom, both of us share mountains of sorrows since I lost my bachelor degree,
a shoulder for me to lean on, when desolation befallen upon me,
i don't blame anyone for my disconsolate, it's all written in my destiny,
living on borrowed times, tomorrow comes or not, is not for me to foresee.

Mom, invariably with teary eyes, you plead me to set you free,
a liability and a very heavy load on my shoulder for me to carry,
umpteen years, Island's was like a second home to you and me,
agonizing dialysis, aggravated with a churlish hummingbird rumbling daily.

Mom, pardon your unfilial son for not hone in on, to your plea to set you free,
in my dictionary, no parents are a liability nor burdensome to their children,
to care for our parents when you need us the most, is a children solemn duty,
the cushdy seeds that you sow, are your children life's greatest blessing harmony.

Mom, as you crooning to me, how could i know you'd go one evening,
with teardrops fall freely, caress my hand tightly, told me not to grief dearly ,
for you know, the sorrowful conundrum that I've to endure in this life eternally,
you are craving to see your very flesh and blood for the last time in a hurry.

This onerous pathway through life, feels unbearable at times,
for i don't have the strength, for this slippery slope i climb,
you're my dearest angel, whenever my life is in a shambles,
a place for me to find solace in, whether i lost, whether i win.

Mom, now you are free to go, rest assured you will always on our mind,
without you and dad, we won't be able to have this kind of loving life,
a noble motherly loves, that we will forever cherish throughout our life,
Rest In Peace Mom ..............................................................

A dedication to my late beloved mom sixth anniversary.

Greeting

MAY THE LIGHTS OF DIWALI BLESS YOUR FAMILY WITH ABUNDANCE OF GOOD HEALTH, PROSPERITY & HAPPINESS

    HAPPY DEEPAVALI